It’s definitely understandable why many guys would quickly make up their minds that making a woman laugh is the most powerful weapon in a man’s toolbox when it comes to seducing women. Don’t be misled; this is just a half truth. Let me reveal how it actually works.

We’ve all heard of flirting, but let me tell you what flirting really is. Flirting is simply the union of humor and seduction, and it is the true key to making women want you.

So, what’s the big deal with flirting, anyway?

Never forget that flirting is the be-all and end-all of your interaction with a women. Without flirting, you are lost. I’ll come back to that in a bit, but first allow me to explain why just being a funny guy isn’t enough to attract women. At least, not in the way that you want to attract them.

You’ve probably had a lot of women place you in the “just friends” category — and chances are, a lot of these were women that you actually wanted to get with. Making women laugh without knowing how to make the conversation flirtatious is a sure fire way to get labeled as a “friend” quickly. To escape the friends zone, you must first master the art of flirting.

Some guys may read this and take it to mean that they should go full force on a woman, laying the sweet talk on thick. Nothing could be further from the truth. You have to avoid being overbearing to a woman, or you will just freak her out and think you are some sort of bad guy. So what do you do? You mix humor in with your sweet talk. You appeal to her romantic side while making her laugh to disarm her.

It can be difficult for most guys to strike the proper balance between being too friendly and being too overbearing. However, once you become accustomed to flirting with women properly, it becomes easier and easier. Not to mention more fun and rewarding for you!

Don’t make the mistake that many guys do by becoming a clown or a buffoon. This may get laughs from a woman, but it will not make her feel any sort of romantic connection with you. To make this romantic connection a reality, you always must get the balance right.

Buffoons are not attractive to good looking girls.

There are no more secrets. It is not making jokes that seduces girls. Humor is a key factor, but it is not the only important thing. Flirtatious humor is the only proven method to seriously attract women.

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